tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5168693316605368835.post4171223993836070728..comments2012-02-17T18:12:20.070+00:00Comments on bosnian girl: Misplaced trust?Darwihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15480384732478646734noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5168693316605368835.post-87974669615988765492009-12-02T20:06:44.297+00:002009-12-02T20:06:44.297+00:00Sorry for late response on your comments, I did no...Sorry for late response on your comments, I did not get notification about them. <br /><br />Venus, I know what you mean, usually I do not open up to those people and problem is solved. <br />As I said in my previous post due to my personality faults, I misinterpreted the behavior of the USA people here, I was judging it by the "friendliness" standard that is valid for Europe, therefore I opened up more than I should. <br />Now I know better. <br /><br />Fresca, well, seem so that all of it is just down to the cultural differences. For USA standards those girls behaved quite nice and ok. It was my fault that I did not thought about the differences and adjusted my behavior accordingly.Darwihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15480384732478646734noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5168693316605368835.post-5142380235694089002009-10-14T23:20:25.602+01:002009-10-14T23:20:25.602+01:00Those girls remind me of me when I was young. I di...Those girls remind me of me when I was young. I didn't realize how much pain other people carry--you never know when you may hit someone else's tender nerve. Now I try very hard to be gentle. I fail sometimes, but your blog reminds me how important it is. Thank you.Frescahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15323129046492056942noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5168693316605368835.post-46496849519219965992009-09-10T10:54:30.545+01:002009-09-10T10:54:30.545+01:00It is a shame that people are often so ignorant ab...It is a shame that people are often so ignorant about things that they say daft things or show no understanding. Some people obviously just dont think. <br />Different situation, but I have also found that when I open up to some friends about the troubles we have with Luke, that they are so ignorant about autism in general that they say silly things that make me feel like Im making a fuss about nothing. They have no idea and I just have to put it down to ignornace.<br />THe thing is that not everyone can be educated on every matter. THat is understandable. But I think that if someone knows nothing about a situation, they should say so and be open to learn about it. Some people however, seem to think they are experts on everything, even when they know nothing about it! That is when I get annoyed. When people who have not experienced what you have claim to know better. <br /><br />Something I have learnt is that there are people, all around the world, who are just disappointing! Lol. <br /><br />I can totally understand where you are coming from. I'd be annoyed and hurt too. It is hard to be open about things that go so deeply, and then it cuts when people treat it as something small.Venushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17681354694377018222noreply@blogger.com